UK to US Sizing Isn't Always A Direct Conversion

 Many years ago, I tried an Elila bra that I really loved.  At the time, I was a 36FF UK and the direct conversion would have been a 36H since the company uses U.S. sizing.  However, the 36F fit best.  I'm a bit "fluffier" nowadays, to use a term coined by Gabriel Iglesius, so I knew I was no longer either of those sizes.

In the Elomi Morgan, I'm a 40GG.  The direct conversion would be a 40J so I ordered that, a 38J, and a 38I.  Why I didn't also order a 40I, I'm not sure.

I ordered the different sizes so that I'd have sister-sizes to accommodate any need for smaller bands or smaller cups.

38K ---> 40J (40GG UK)

38J ---> 40I (40G UK)

38I ---> 40H (40FF UK)

Here is the 40J.  You can easily see it does NOT fit.  At all.

There was a TON of space in the band.  Lots of wrinkling in the cups

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Lots of wrinkles at the top of the cup.  I could have put my whole purse in there.

My pinky is covering the underwire.  Yes, my whole hand fits in that unfilled part of the cup.

I loved the charcoal gray color but this clearly doesn't fit so I moved on to the next contender: 38J in a beautiful wine color called Plum.

Still too large in the cup.  The band was a hair snug.

The 38I was the best fit.  If you clicked on the link to the previous blog post (above), you'll see it's the same color as before, just a different size.

No wrinkles in the cups except at the bottom.

You can see the wing is being pulled a smidge but there's no way I could size up any further since we know the 40 band is WAY too big.

The gore is almost completely flat against my sternum.  Part of the separation is because I'm leaning forward for this picture.

When I swoop and scoop, there is a bit of space at the bottom of the cup.

The 38I fit darn near perfect but it was 1/2 inch too tight in the band and, with the boning that is sewn along the wing to prevent rolling, it would be painful to wear in just a matter of an hour or two.

For comparison's sake, I ordered another Elomi Morgan (in 40GG) so that I could be sure I was comparing all new bras.  Here are the pictures of the Elomi:

The takeaway from all this: UK to US sizing is not always a direct conversion when you're comparing different brands.

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When Should I "Sister-Size" Bra Fit?

Let's first talk about what sister-sizing means.  It's a term used when you adjust to a smaller or larger band while still having the same fit in the cups.  Cups are based on volume and sister-sizing accommodates that, to an extent.

To illustrate...

A 34C "sisters" to a 32D when you need a smaller band.
A 34C "sisters" to a 36B when you need a larger band.

Image source: https://thelingerielesbian.tumblr.com/post/65660813129/im-feeling-alittle-confused-about-bra-sizesi

This really only works when you're working within the same brand and style.  Mainly because sizes between different brands don't translate exactly.  You can't go from a 34C in Panache to a 36B in Chantelle because they're constructed differently.  But it becomes even more important in the larger cups.  The sizing becomes quite disparate above a DD cup.  Panache uses UK sizing and Chantelle uses EU sizing.  So where a Panache 34F sisters to a 32FF, Chantelle 34F, sisters to a 32G.

Even within the same brand, you can't do a straight sister size from one style to the next because, again, the construction and materials are often different.  A cup with one piece to the cups--think molded cups--are going to fit differently than a cup with multiple pieces.  Always start with the band size that has been determined to be your best fit, check it for snugness (upside down is one good way to do that) then adjust for cup fit.

In some instances, sales associates at well-known stores have taken sister-sizing to the extreme, in an effort to fit the breast volume.  This is completely incorrect.  Always fit the band first.

But, what do I mean "to the extreme"?

Say someone is UK 32G.  In shorthand, sistering looks like this 32G - 34FF - 36F - 38DDD (UK E)

When you consider that the band is what your ribcage measures around its circumference, it becomes quite obvious that someone who measures 38 inches will, in no way, fit into a 32 band.  Conversely, someone who measures into a 32 band will be swimming in a 38.  Where the sales associates are able to "make it work" is when someone has breast volume well beyond any cup that they carry (example: UK HH cup) but they want to make a sale.

Well, if the store sells 38DDD, sales associates have been known to "encourage" their 32G customer into it because it "totally fits".  Yeah, no.

Say it with me: Always fit the band, first, then adjust for the cup.

If the cup sizes don't go up high enough in a particular brand, you're going to have to find a different brand.

This may help with that:

28J+ : Curvy Kate, Ewa Michalak, Comexim, Panache, Bravissimo
30HH+ : Above + Freya, Tutti Rouge, Fantasie, Kris Line, Parfait
32H: Above + Flirtelle, Pour Moi, Shock Absorber, Gorsenia, Samanta
34GG: Above + Elomi, Avocado, All Undone, Miss Mandalay, Ewa Bien
36G: Above + Claudette, Goddess, Gorgeous, Prima Donna, Sculptresse
38FF: Above + Wolf & Whistle, Gossard, Change, Chantelle, Alegro
40F: Above + Cacique, Natori, Wacoal, Fayreform, Curvy Couture
42E: Above + Montelle, Kiabi, La Isla, Addiction, Ava
44DD: Above + Bali, Soma, Wonderbra, The Natural, Best Form

(source: https://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/)

The main takeaway is this: Always fit the band, always trust your gut on fit, and don't let anyone pressure you into buying what you don't actually love.  Sister-size when the cup fits but the band doesn't quite fit.  If it still doesn't fit, it may be a shape mismatch and you need to try a different style and/or brand.

Bra Review: Elomi Morgan vs Elomi Meredith vs Elomi Mariella vs Elomi Molly

Morgan, Meredith, and Mariella are, essentially, the same bra.  They have a new "sister" named Molly which is a nursing bra made on the same frame.

In this short post, I'll point out the few notable differences between Morgan and Meredith.

The first one is that the "tan" color of Morgan is called Toasted Almond and the Meredith is called Sahara.

While all the bras are made with four-piece cups, Morgan (and Mariella and Molly) are constructed from a larger percentage of polyester (the silkier material) than the Meredith.

Meredith has a textured cup that looks like two pieces of material layered together but it's just one.  I tried to separate them by sticking tweezers into the little holes but it wasn't happening.

The only other difference is that Morgan has a solid piece of elastic running along the bottomside of the cups and Meredith is made from two that meet in a V at the base of the gore. 

So, these four "M"-named bras are all the same skeleton and would serve as good replacements or substitutes if you can't find one of the others.

Morgan--comes in basic tan and black colors that are often just prints in those colors rather than solid tan or black, as well as fashion colors each season.  I think white is considered a fashion color because the tan and black colors seem to be the ones that carry over from season to season.

Mariella--comes in only fashion colors which is a great addition to your Morgan collection.

Meredith--comes in tan and black colors.  I've never seen a fashion color for this one.

Molly--comes in blush at the present time.  If you don't mind the nursing clips, it's a great neutral if your skin undertones are more pink than yellow.

If you'd like to see how they compare to the Elomi Kim Plunge, go to this post here.  Elomi Kim, Jody, and Lucie are made from the same frame as each other.

When to Buy New Bras? Or...How Worn is Too Worn?

I've heard many people ask: When do you know to buy new bras?

For me, it's any time a new color comes out and then buy ALL the colors because I usually have six or seven bras in my collection, all in regular rotation.

Recently, though, I realized it had been awhile since I had bought any new bras.  Now "awhile" is a very subjective term.  For me, it's been five months.  I haven't bought new bras since September 2019.  I attempted to go buy a couple two weeks ago but the local store was out of the Fall/Winter colors that I wanted, didn't have any more from Spring/Summer 2019 (not surprised but I was hoping), and Spring/Summer 2020 is making it's way in but hadn't all arrived yet.  So, it'll be six months since I've bought new bras.  Yes, I can shop online but I'd rather shop small and help keep that store in business.  Too many small business fall prey to big box and/or online, I want to do my part to invest in them and our community.

But...back to "How do you know?"

Your bra will let you know.  Everything shows signs of wear eventually.  Again, a subjective condition.  My definition of "signs of wear" is probably minimal to the average person.  But here are a few things that I look for when I'm assessing for signs of wear.

The eyes have expansion, even when you haven't worn the bra in a few days.  As time goes by, one of the eyes will eventually separate from the material but, at this time, all stitches appear to be intact.

On the hook side, you may see pilling of the material.  Or the hooks don't have their normal bend.  To be fair, the hooks might also get bent out of shape when you wash them in the washer.  Yes, you're supposed to hand wash them but I don't take time for that.  The washing machine wreaks less havoc if it's front load and/or does't have an agitator.

Strings are another sign of wear.  The stitches are getting frayed and will eventually allow the different pieces of material to separate.

Another key indicator is when the bottom of the wings stay rolled.  It's not uncommon for them to roll when you're wearing them.  Especially if you have any level of fluffiness on your torso.  At 220lbs, 40GG, I definitely have fluffiness and these two bras that I bought at the end of summer are showing their continued loyalty.

Elomi Morgan in Toasted Almond (right)
Elomi Morgan in Ebony (below)

So, if you're wondering when to buy new bras, check your bras and see how much wear they have.  If it's at a level that is intolerable to you, it's time to buy new ones.  If you're good with their condition, keep on rolling.